Sex and Relationships in the 21st Century: A Transsexual's Point of View by Vanessa Mateo "Life after forty. So, the saying is true--life begins at forty. I've never felt sexier and more confident--empowered if you will--in the things I do. Is it pure Italian wisdom when they say "Italians do it better" or is it merely a catchphrase from a Madonna music video from the 1980s? Fast forward to 2017. Maybe it's time for an upgrade: "Vanessa does it better". For real! Here, in this latest phase of my life--fortysomething and fabulous--I share with you my recent adventures and latest conquests with passion and pizzazz, conviction and accuracy and of course, absolute honesty."