Are you frustrated with the slow response you receive from men? Why does it seem that men miss the cues women use when expressing an interest in them? Like many of you Dr. Velma Bagby's daughters asked the same question: "why are men so slow?" This book is Dr. Bagby's response - detailing conversations with her single daughters over time and using as a foundation, the story of God's creation of marriage between Adam and Eve. The practical steps she outlines will change your relationship experience and your perspective, so you can enjoy a fruitful outcome. This book will help you determine and understand: - Why men are slow. - Whether he is interested. - If he is "the One". - If you are "the One" for him, and who makes that decision. - What a woman should do while she waits. - If you are prepared for marriage; and if not, how to prepare. DR. VELMA BAGBY is an ordained Christian minister who has been successfully married for 44 years. She is a skilled counselor working with singles and married couples. Dr. Bagby also has a thriving pre-marriage counseling practice. As a respected administrator in state government now retired, she is a sought-after public speaker on a variety of topics: organizational development; employee engagement and professional development, as well as training communities in how to engage social services for their families. Dr. Bagby is most passionate about seeing married couples happily married.